has something ever hurt you like so so so much but you just had to shrug it off and pretend you were fine but like the thing was super big and the feeling never went away and it hurts so fucking much you can barely function

Can we please stop associating being a good person with how much you're willing to suffer in silence for other people? You can be a kind person and still say "no, I don't have the time/energy to help you with that." You can be a kind person and still say "this makes me uncomfortable, please stop." You can be a kind person and still say "I disagree and here's why." You can be kind and still say "I'm not okay with this." Being kind is about treating people with kindness and respect, not about being the human equivalent of a doormat!

Do you ever wonder how much you exist in other people’s lives? I’m always curious if people think of me when a certain song comes on, or when they pass through a certain town. I wonder how many stories I’ve been a part of that I may have forgotten. I wonder if I still I exist in the minds of people that I don’t speak to anymore. I wonder how many times a day I pass through someone’s head.

andy biersack is peak malespo

(if you reblog please don’t tag with bvb or his name, i don’t want to get terminated)

no matter how many times i hear “i love you”, “i’m not going to abandon you”, “i’m not going anywhere” i’m still so fucking scared of being abandoned

this year, so far, may not be going your way or how you hoped it would or how you planned,

but there is still time for things to change.

there is still time for things to get better.

there is still time for your dreams to come true.

im homeless. i dont know what to say anymore. i cant get a job with everything thats happening and im struggling to convince my family to let me keep sleeping in their house. i have some clothes and a towel and my phone and i feel so alone.

if you have anything to spare, i just want to eat and get some soap and maybe some more pants

paypal

me: has breakdown

my friends & followers: offers love and support

me: did i just manipulate them into loving and supporting me

not to hate ableism and ignorance on main but if ur child tells u that they dont understand smth and didnt think to do smth thats “"common sense”“ and ur reaction is ‘i shouldnt HAVE to tell u to do that’ or ‘but u should KNOW this’ instead of trying to clarify what u expect and being patient w them then please for the love of god do some fucking research on ur kids adhd/autism or literally any mental illness/disorder before making them spend 18 yrs of their life convincing themselves that theyre just an annoyance to everyone for not understanding things like others do

shoutout to the grandpa in the Lost Boys who knew very well that there were vampires in Santa Cruz and that his daughter’s new boyfriend was a vampire but never said anything about it. Shoutout to the grandpa in the Lost Boys who didn’t question why his grandsons and their gross friends were hauling a woman and child up to their bedrooms and were clearly up to something but instead hassled them about gas for the car. Shoutout to the grandpa in the Lost Boys who greeted his family to his home by pretending to be dead on the front porch at the exact time of their arrival.

the whole bernie sanders campaign is so funny because bernie said “i want you all to have nice things” and people really said “nice things are bad and we dont deserve to have them”

Capitalist propaganda really does that to you

dating someone shouldn’t exhaust you

dating someone shouldn’t be painful or upsetting

if you’re dating someone and you feel this way then something probably isn’t quite right ok. please take care of yourself